1. She Gives Him Space. Why are you trying to seduce your man while he’s watching ESPN or unwinding on Xbox? Go sit down somewhere, and get a hobby. Sure, it’s okay to strut around the house in something eye-catching, but to purposely distract him during his favorite show is rude. If you want to be playful, why are you always saying no when he wants a pre-dawn powerplay? Also, there are ways to give him attention while he’s watching the game that allow for win-win outcomes. Use your imagination: he watches the game, you give him attention. Any more specific, I’d have to change the rating on this blog. Everyone wins. You’re happy; he’s probably happier, but you get my point.
2. She Says Yes. Women must understand the importance of a thriving sex life for their men. Stop saying no, no, no. Become a YES woman! Instead of breaking him off a little every now and then, keep that man satiated. Of course there are times when nature calls and intimacy would be awkward at best so then saying no is fine. Other than that, a wife should “jump on it” every chance she gets. Keep his tank full.
3. She Is Well-Groomed. Men are inundated with beauty everywhere they turn. If they are browsing a car magazine, scantily clad women are posted on every other page. If they are flipping through channels, beauty calls from the big screen. They can’t avoid it. So why then are you meandering about in a tattered bra, frumpy pajama pants, and bigger than life panties? Toss that mess in the garbage and give yourself a make over. There is no reason why your hair isn’t styled. Who cares if it’s the weekend, and there’s work to do. Style your hair, put on something cute, make sure the mani/pedi stays done, splash on your favorite scent, and keep his attention. Something short is nice too – don’t resist an eye-catching bend at the waist while you’re unloading the dryer or picking up trash off the floor! Gets them everytime.
4. She Chooses Her Words Carefully. If you want to run your mouth, get a girlfriend. Ladies, men cannot handle excessive verbiage. A good woman knows to get to the bottom line immediately when speaking with her man. Cut all the details and fluffy sidebars and get to the point. If you want him to tune into you, be concise. Save the flowery expressions for 3a.m. when your warm whispers arouse him from his sleep. However, once you’ve awakened him, it’s time to be quiet again. Let your bodies do the rest of the talking.
5. She Has Strong Girlfriend Connections. Contrary to popular belief, your man should not be your best friend. Soul mate? Yes. Confidante? Sure. Life Partner? You bet cha! But the person you yap to about the dress you’re wearing to the Christmas party or which color shoes would go best with your wrap dress? No, Sweetie. Those are topics that should be reserved for your female connections – not the muscle mass you call your man. Effeminate males are unattractive, so if a man did want to engage in those type of discussions with me, I would look at him sideways. Uh, you’ve got to go…I like a manly man and helping me decide which nail polish would be best with my red dress is a turn off. That’s what your girlfriends are for. Don’t punk out your man by discussing girlie things with him; he really isn’t that interested anyway…probably trying his best to appease you – and secretly praying to whatever God he believes in behind your back that you will find a friend so he doesn’t have to play dress up with you.
